What to do, what to do…

Ok, remaining friends with exes is always awkward… but it’s worse when they still have feelings for you.

One of my Exes can do no wrong in my mums eyes, and because he’s still showing an interest she seems to think that it’s a damn good idea I should give it a go with him again and be flattered… She even went as far as talking about moving in with him and how a relationship with someone would be a good thing even if I was settling.

Settling with someone whom I felt so uncomfortable with I broke it off…

There’s a FUCKING REASON HE’S AN EX. He is such an indecisive idiot that drives me to exasperation on a regular basis. I’ll ask him something simple about where he wants to go to drink… When he knows full well I don’t drink alcohol and avoid pubs like the plague, so… you know, I don’t know any decent pubs. He’s like, oh but where do you want to go… I mention work has a bar since that’s the only one I know… meant as a FUCKING JOKE, and nope he meets me after work and arrives late. So I’ve got myself a muffin and a hot chocolate and I’m quite happy to NOT be bought a drink.

Then… he asks about where I wanna go (several times and I honestly didn’t care since I was lumbered with sitting at the deserted bar at work as it was). I did say several times I want Chinese food (there’s a buffet on the same work complex)… And he fucking JOKES that if we were to go back to his house I’d – in his words- be assaulted. (Not to mention that prior to this he’d mentioned to my MOTHER he intended on getting me drunk. Her alarm bells should have gone off. His intention would be to get me drunk and take advantage of me.)

I threatened that if he so much as dared he’d be stabbed somewhere where the sun rarely shines. I made it clear I wasn’t amused at that point, I was hungry and just went to the Chinese, he followed and yeah OK fine, I was wrong to think he’d give me the cash for his half of the entry… He owes me around £12.50+ and he made a further joke about having sex with me.

 

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Needless to say I think I should just ignore any future contact off of him.

Sure I might have been somewhat curious about sex with him… but, joking about raping me?! No. He creeped me out before (and because of mum I more or less HAD to see him again) and now he’s just crossed the damn line.

Thing is I’m still debating what to tell mum. And how to tell her so she doesn’t just think I’m overreacting to it all…

Inevitably she will blame me and accuse me of being awkward.